IB/rdmavt, IB/hfi1, IB/qib: Correct ack count for passive (RTR) QPs

The send complete for RC QPs mismanages the ack count when the
responder side is only in RTR.

A QP in that state cannot send requests, but it can be the target
for operations that elicit responses.

Adjust the RC completion logic to correct the count maintenance
by reflecting RECV_OK in a new state test.

Reviewed-by: Kaike Wan <kaike.wan@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>

drivers/infiniband/hw/qib/qib_rc.c

@@ -895,7 +895,7 @@ void qib_rc_send_complete(struct rvt_qp *qp, struct ib_header *hdr)
 	u32 opcode;
 	u32 psn;
 
-	if (!(ib_rvt_state_ops[qp->state] & RVT_PROCESS_OR_FLUSH_SEND))
+	if (!(ib_rvt_state_ops[qp->state] & RVT_SEND_OR_FLUSH_OR_RECV_OK))
 		return;
 
 	/* Find out where the BTH is */