ethtool: add standard pause stats

Currently drivers have to report their pause frames statistics
via ethtool -S, and there is a wide variety of names used for
these statistics.

Add the two statistics defined in IEEE 802.3x to the standard
API. Create a new ethtool request header flag for including
statistics in the response to GET commands.

Always create the ETHTOOL_A_PAUSE_STATS nest in replies when
flag is set. Testing if driver declares the op is not a reliable
way of checking if any stats will actually be included and therefore
we don't want to give the impression that presence of
ETHTOOL_A_PAUSE_STATS indicates driver support.

Note that this patch does not include PFC counters, which may fit
better in dcbnl? But mostly I don't need them/have a setup to test
them so I haven't looked deeply into exposing them :)

v3:
 - add a helper for "uninitializing" stats, rather than a cryptic
   memset() (Andrew)

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>

Documentation/networking/ethtool-netlink.rst

@@ -68,6 +68,7 @@ the flags may not apply to requests. Recognized flags are:
   =================================  ===================================
   ``ETHTOOL_FLAG_COMPACT_BITSETS``   use compact format bitsets in reply
   ``ETHTOOL_FLAG_OMIT_REPLY``        omit optional reply (_SET and _ACT)
+  ``ETHTOOL_FLAG_STATS``             include optional device statistics
   =================================  ===================================
 
 New request flags should follow the general idea that if the flag is not set,
@@ -989,8 +990,18 @@ Kernel response contents:
   ``ETHTOOL_A_PAUSE_AUTONEG``            bool    pause autonegotiation
   ``ETHTOOL_A_PAUSE_RX``                 bool    receive pause frames
   ``ETHTOOL_A_PAUSE_TX``                 bool    transmit pause frames
+  ``ETHTOOL_A_PAUSE_STATS``              nested  pause statistics
   =====================================  ======  ==========================
 
+``ETHTOOL_A_PAUSE_STATS`` are reported if ``ETHTOOL_FLAG_STATS`` was set
+in ``ETHTOOL_A_HEADER_FLAGS``.
+It will be empty if driver did not report any statistics. Drivers fill in
+the statistics in the following structure:
+
+.. kernel-doc:: include/linux/ethtool.h
+    :identifiers: ethtool_pause_stats
+
+Each member has a corresponding attribute defined.
 
 PAUSE_SET
 ============