rdma_rxe: Use netlink messages to add/delete links

Add support for the RDMA_NLDEV_CMD_NEWLINK/DELLINK messages which allow
dynamically adding new RXE links.  Deprecate the old module options for
now.

Cc: Moni Shoua <monis@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Yanjun Zhu <yanjun.zhu@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>

drivers/infiniband/sw/rxe/rxe_verbs.h

@@ -464,7 +464,7 @@ static inline struct rxe_mem *to_rmw(struct ib_mw *mw)
 	return mw ? container_of(mw, struct rxe_mem, ibmw) : NULL;
 }
 
-int rxe_register_device(struct rxe_dev *rxe);
+int rxe_register_device(struct rxe_dev *rxe, const char *ibdev_name);
 
 void rxe_mc_cleanup(struct rxe_pool_entry *arg);