drm/managed: Cleanup of unused functions and polishing docs

Following functions are only used internally, not by drivers:
- devm_drm_dev_init

Also, now that we have a very slick and polished way to allocate a
drm_device with devm_drm_dev_alloc, update all the docs to reflect the
new reality. Mostly this consists of deleting old and misleading
hints. Two main ones:

- it is no longer required that the drm_device base class is first in
  the structure. devm_drm_dev_alloc can cope with it being anywhere

- obviously embedded now strongly recommends using devm_drm_dev_alloc

v2: Fix typos (Noralf)

v3: Split out the removal of drm_dev_init, that's blocked on some
discussions on how to convert vgem/vkms/i915-selftests. Adjust commit
message to reflect that.

Cc: Noralf Trønnes <noralf@tronnes.org>
Acked-by: Noralf Trønnes <noralf@tronnes.org> (v2)
Acked-by: Sam Ravnborg <sam@ravnborg.org>
Cc: Luben Tuikov <luben.tuikov@amd.com>
Cc: amd-gfx@lists.freedesktop.org
Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20200902072627.3617301-1-daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch

include/drm/drm_device.h

@@ -92,7 +92,7 @@ struct drm_device {
 	 * NULL.
 	 *
 	 * Instead of using this pointer it is recommended that drivers use
-	 * drm_dev_init() and embed struct &drm_device in their larger
+	 * devm_drm_dev_alloc() and embed struct &drm_device in their larger
 	 * per-device structure.
 	 */
 	void *dev_private;