netfilter: don't allocate space for arp/bridge hooks unless needed

no need to define hook points if the family isn't supported.
Because we need these hooks for either nftables, arp/ebtables
or the 'call-iptables' hack we have in the bridge layer add two
new dependencies, NETFILTER_FAMILY_{ARP,BRIDGE}, and have the
users select them.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>

net/bridge/netfilter/Kconfig

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@
 #
 menuconfig NF_TABLES_BRIDGE
 	depends on BRIDGE && NETFILTER && NF_TABLES
+	select NETFILTER_FAMILY_BRIDGE
 	tristate "Ethernet Bridge nf_tables support"
 
 if NF_TABLES_BRIDGE
@@ -29,6 +30,7 @@ endif # NF_TABLES_BRIDGE
 menuconfig BRIDGE_NF_EBTABLES
 	tristate "Ethernet Bridge tables (ebtables) support"
 	depends on BRIDGE && NETFILTER && NETFILTER_XTABLES
+	select NETFILTER_FAMILY_BRIDGE
 	help
 	  ebtables is a general, extensible frame/packet identification
 	  framework. Say 'Y' or 'M' here if you want to do Ethernet