inet: add proper refcounting to request sock

reqsk_put() is the generic function that should be used
to release a refcount (and automatically call reqsk_free())

reqsk_free() might be called if refcount is known to be 0
or undefined.

refcnt is set to one in inet_csk_reqsk_queue_add()

As request socks are not yet in global ehash table,
I added temporary debugging checks in reqsk_put() and reqsk_free()

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>

net/ipv4/tcp_fastopen.c

@@ -253,7 +253,7 @@ static bool tcp_fastopen_queue_check(struct sock *sk)
 		fastopenq->rskq_rst_head = req1->dl_next;
 		fastopenq->qlen--;
 		spin_unlock(&fastopenq->lock);
-		reqsk_free(req1);
+		reqsk_put(req1);
 	}
 	return true;
 }